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But our adventure is over now.
The doctors gave us days, maybe weeks. She rallied with some meds, and gave us wonderful days on Friday and Saturday that we’ll always remember. But she stopped eating, and it was time. She could have lasted a few more days, but would have felt worse each one of them. She was just doing it for us. We needed to end it for her.
We’ve never lived in this house without her. She’d have been ten in May. Right now, we’re still noticing how empty it is, and how much it hurts without her. She cared for our two kids like they were her own. She was once attacked and bitten by another dog, and did nothing to defend herself. But a dog once ran barking at our stroller, and she had to be separated from it. Too sweet and gentle to defend herself, but would do anything for us. We’ll miss her more than words can say.
vondon302
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02/18/2019 at 08:36 |
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Awwww. Well written. Dusty in here today
TheRealBicycleBuck
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02/18/2019 at 08:41 |
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Sorry for your loss. Take some time to write down all the good memories and gather all of your favorite photos. A little scrapbook of your favorite moments will help ease the pain.
Chuckles
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02/18/2019 at 08:49 |
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I am so sorry for your loss. It's wonderful that you had a few more good days with her, but you did the right thing. If she wasn't eating anymore, that was her way of telling you that it's time.
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> TheRealBicycleBuck
02/18/2019 at 08:51 |
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That's probably a good idea. We looked through the pictures on our phones last night. It got easier as we went through
dumpsterfire!
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02/18/2019 at 08:52 |
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sounds like she was a perfect match for your family, sorry.
$kaycog
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02/18/2019 at 08:52 |
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I’m so sorry.
WilliamsSW
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02/18/2019 at 08:53 |
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I’m so, so sorry. And so glad she had a free more good days. I know you’ll always have memories of the 10 years she had.
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02/18/2019 at 08:54 |
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> dumpsterfire!
02/18/2019 at 08:56 |
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Sh e really was
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> Chuckles
02/18/2019 at 08:57 |
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We know. It was so stressful in that she was the sort of dog that refused to show pain, but we were supposed to just know when she was too uncomfortable
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> WilliamsSW
02/18/2019 at 09:02 |
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We made a bucket list, and she did all and more. We were lucky
Sampsonite24-Earth's Least Likeliest Hero
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02/18/2019 at 09:15 |
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im so sorry for your loss cash :(
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Chuckles
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02/18/2019 at 09:20 |
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Dogs can be stoic like that. They just put up with pain as long as they can without showing it, until one day they hit their limit and and they’re just done.
Let yourself be sad. Don't try to push that sadness down and ignore it. Give yourself a chance to really mourn her, and you'll be glad that you did. Take a day or two off if you can.
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02/18/2019 at 09:36 |
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My condolences
BEER4Bonnieville
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02/18/2019 at 09:37 |
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So very sorry to hear of your family loss. The memories you have will live forever. Will be patiently waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.
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02/18/2019 at 09:54 |
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so sorry... glad you shared such a great life with her.
Dogsatemypants
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02/18/2019 at 09:55 |
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My sympathy. It hurts to lose a critter. Take time to remember the good.
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02/18/2019 at 10:13 |
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I’m sad to hear this, and you all have my deepest condolences. Our furry family members really bring out the best in us and they ask for so little in return.
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> ITA97, now with more Jag @ opposite-lock.com
02/18/2019 at 10:18 |
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That’s part of the grief. How do you know you did enough for a dog that never asked for a damn thing, and was just happy to be part of the pack?
vicali
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02/18/2019 at 10:25 |
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So sorry to hear, doggos are the best.
We just had the same thing happen. It will be a long time before we stop listening for her collar jingle or paws on the floor.
Kids are amazing, they will surprise you how much they are processing. Our little girl took a shoe box yesterday, lined it with her favourite blankets, out a little pillow in, then tucked her little chocolate lab stuffie in it. She put it in the corner of her room so she can keep Bella close.
Mom and Dad ended up in tears after that.
We told the kids in some time we would make frames pics of them and her for each of their rooms. It’s a little too sensitive right now- but another month and they’ll be ready.
Hugs to you and your family.
RallyDarkstrike - Fan of 2-cyl FIATs, Eastern Bloc & Kei cars
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02/18/2019 at 10:32 |
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Awww, buddy....I am so sorry to hear this. She was a beautiful pup...my sincere condolences on your loss...
Just Jeepin'
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02/18/2019 at 10:34 |
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Walgreens offers inexpensive small photo books; when my pup passed away last year, I assembled my favorite photos of her and printed a few copies to hand out to the vet and kennels I regularly used.
And of course a copy for myself.
Best wishes to your family, and I hope you’re fortunate enough to find another amazing dog like her someday.
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02/18/2019 at 10:40 |
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Aww, sweet doggo. I’m so sorry.
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> smobgirl
02/18/2019 at 10:43 |
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She was; thanks
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> Just Jeepin'
02/18/2019 at 10:43 |
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That’s really good idea. She had two knew surgeries and physical therapy. I bet they'd appreciate that
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> RallyDarkstrike - Fan of 2-cyl FIATs, Eastern Bloc & Kei cars
02/18/2019 at 10:45 |
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Thanks. She was beautiful and sweet
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> vicali
02/18/2019 at 10:49 |
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The framed pic for the kids room is a great idea. They're 3 and 5, and will definitely have issues with this soon.
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vicali
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02/18/2019 at 11:26 |
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We didn’t hide anything from our kids. We sat down with them after getting home without her and explained that she had gotten really sick and it was time. It was a rough few days for sure- but they knew what had happened and weren’t waiting for her to come home.
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> vicali
02/18/2019 at 12:08 |
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She went to the hospital Sunday for vomiting, came home Monday with an untreatable diagnosis. We told them then. Had to, since we were a mess.
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vicali
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02/18/2019 at 12:43 |
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Same, we took her in on a Thurs with a bit of a limp, she was gone Saturday.
It’s hard when it’s so fast, and we were in the same situation. A ton of drugs should’ve kept her going but you lost her personality, and after a day on the doses her liver and kidneys were not working.
In some ways fast was best. She was still herself, still cuddled with the kids, still running to the front door when my Wife’s Subaru turned into the driveway.
Take it easy Cash, it very slowly gets a bit easier.
I tell my family we hurt so much because of how big of a part of our family she was. And how much she loved us and gave to us.
Future Heap Owner
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02/18/2019 at 15:06 |
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I’m so sad to hear this. Pets are the greatest and losing them is so hard. My condolences to you and the rest of your pack. It’s gonna be a tough next few weeks and months. I hope you all find support in each other.
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> Future Heap Owner
02/18/2019 at 15:55 |
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Thanks. It’s a new adventure. One we hoped was a few more years away, but always knew would happen
Duck Duck Grey Duck FTMFW!
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02/19/2019 at 09:25 |
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I am so sorry for your loss. That sucks so much!!!
RacinBob
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02/24/2019 at 21:11 |
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If you need a tear jerker, read Art of Racing in the Rain. Your dog is on the cover.
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> RacinBob
02/24/2019 at 21:20 |
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Ive wanted to read this and never got around to it. Not sure I'm up for it yet. Might suck fuck it and just cry.
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RacinBob
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02/24/2019 at 23:37 |
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I’ve never had a dog but I am fairly good at racing in the rain. I liked the book for both. It’s about things people love.
Buy it on Amazon and throw it on the shelf for when it is time to remember your friend . It is a joy to read.
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RacinBob
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02/24/2019 at 23:43 |
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Ironically I saw my copy while looking for my Alfa 105 manual before seeing your post earlier tonight.
Ps, on a more practical side, buy yourself a Dremel variable speed and a cutoff wheel set. You will use it.
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RacinBob
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02/24/2019 at 23:46 |
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Ps, if you get the D remel, just don’t cut yourself with it. It’s the closest thing I can imagine to a personal light saber.....
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RacinBob
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02/25/2019 at 00:03 |
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H ere is my copy on the bookshelf which is in what used to be the basement coal room .... Also, M an M otors and C ars and also Rock Island Line are good reads too. So is Last Open Road....
